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It's not always easy to have rough sex—especially if you're not used to it.

But if you want to start experimenting with more aggressive play, we can help.

Here are a few tips:

-Make sure you've got plenty of lubricant on hand. This will make the whole experience more comfortable and pleasurable for both of you.

-Take it slow! If you're feeling overwhelmed by the idea of having sex this way, start off with something gentler, like or massage wand vibrators some gentle oral sex. That way, when your partner does get rougher, it won't feel like such a shock to your system (or theirs).

-Don't be afraid to ask for what feels good! If your partner is starting to get too rough for your liking, let them know in a polite but firm way that what they're doing isn't working for you right now—and suggest an alternative that might be more enjoyable for both parties involved (e.g., "Can we try [insert new activity here] instead?").